While writing in my blog the other day, I realized that I have a whole bunch of drafts that for some reason, I never published! So rather than let that work go to waste, I will post it now – totally out of order – but I feel like there is some good stuff in there! ;) I will add some notes in italic.
I didn’t have a baby shower. Though it has become a bit more popular in Germany, probably thanks to the influence of the US, it is generally not done here. I do feel like I missed out a little bit. I didn’t get any diaper cakes or have to play any silly baby shower games. I had a lot of fun co-planning my friend Jessica’s baby shower. It would have been fun, and I’m a bit sad I can’t attend my sister-in-law’s shower for baby #2 next month. (Eloise is 2 already, and she was actually born before her baby shower – I guess she wanted to attend, too!)
Because Germans don’t do the baby shower thing (they call it “Baby Party”, by the way), you’ll need to buy all of the bigger items (crib, car seat, bassinet, stroller, nursery gear, etc.) yourself. After Theo was here, we found there were plenty of people asking us, “What do you still need?” because we’d already gotten most of the things we really needed for Theo’s first few weeks of life. (Apart from the crib, which a bunch of friends pitched in for and gave it as a present for Theo’s baptism.)
But never fear! “Baby party” or not, you’ll still be showered with gifts once your little one has arrived. And they will be good ones! Everyone will find different things useful, of course, but now that I’ve been on the receiving end of baby gifts, there are a few things that have stood out apart from the basic things like diapers, clothes and swaddlers. I’ve compiled a list of some of our favorite gift ideas. (No affiliate links here, just trying to make life easier for y’all!)
So, without further ado…
11 Great Baby Shower Gifts!
- Mobile – We received a wooden fish-shaped mobile by Goki, and Theo has loved it from the beginning. We liked it so much that we gave the animals mobile to our friends when their baby was born a few weeks later. Other friends of ours have this dragon one, which is also very cute! We got this one from Djeco the second time around. I love it so much!
- Personalized pillow – from Theo’s godmother. And another one that our friend sewed with his name on it. Babies don’t necessarily use pillows, but at some point they will, and it’s a keepsake for years to come! Theo, now 2.5, has been using his pillow the last few nights!
- Burp cloths – Seriously, folks. You can never have too many burp cloths! You can even make your own if you can sew a straight line. Or even if you can’t…crooked lines make it even more charmingly handmade! Old t-shirts with cute fabric on the other side make perfect burp cloths. Otherwise, you can buy a cute set. We only have one of these, but I really like the ones that have a slight contour to them, because they fit over your shoulder perfectly! For my second baby, I bought myself a set of rainbow burp cloths. Because I didn’t want to use the stained ones from last time. And just a few days ago, some second-time moms and I were discussing which gifts to give and nice burp cloths definitely made the list!
- Triangle drool bibs – Fashionable and cute, and perfect for when baby starts drooling nonstop. Bonus points for DIY. Just the same with the burp cloths, these are super easy to make!
- Soft leather baby shoes – Because shoes on babies are entirely unnecessary, but extremely cute! The key is to get some that will actually stay on…before becoming a parent, I actually didn’t realize that babies kick their feet A LOT! We have some experience with Daisy Roots shoes from the UK (more on that later!) and they’re (so far) impossible for Theo to kick off. On Amazon, from another brand, these moccasins are cute, as are these other designs!
- Personalized onesie – We love our MD appliqueed onesie from etsy, gifted by Theo’s American godparents, but if you’re feeling crafty, you could also embellish your own! There are tons of tutorials on Pinterest.
- The Oball – Very easy for baby to grip, and a lifesaver when it comes to keeping baby’s hands out of their pants during diaper changes! Of course, that won’t necessarily keep the Oball itself out of the poopy diaper…which hasn’t happened yet (knock on wood!)…but if it does, at least it’s easy enough to clean! There’s apparently been a recall on ones made after January 2016 with the rattle – so please check to make sure! Or get the one without the rattles.
- Teething toy – There are plenty of good ones out there, and this is a little typical, but: Sophie the Giraffe (she’s a classic!). Even though it sounds like a dog toy (it squeaks!), Theo and most other babies I know seem to love it. Also, 9 times out of 10, squeaking that toy makes my baby stop crying. And now you may have heard about the mold issue – yuck! But there are several other Sophie teether toys that don’t have this issue, so take a look! They don’t squeak, but at least there wouldn’t be mold. But teether toys are a great gift. Because teething sucks and once we realize it is happening, we’ll be glad to already have something suitable in the house for baby to soothe their aching gums on!
- Pacifier clip – Not everyone uses these, perhaps, but if your baby does end up using pacifiers, it really helps when out and about so that it doesn’t fall on the ground! Plus, there are some really cute designs! I really like this rainbow one from Heimess. There are also some really cute ones on etsy, and if you know the baby’s name already, you can get them a personalized one! I received a lovely personalized one for Avi, and I also bought one before from Leo & Lea. And of course Avi didn’t end up taking a pacifier. Hah. But still, some work as teething toys, like the one with silicone beads on it, and you can also use it to attach small toys to the stroller. Win-win.
- Bath toys – We got this cute fishing set from my parents (although I picked it out). They will surely be used for years to come! There’s even a fishbone…how hilarious is that?! We haven’t actually used ours in the bath yet, but it also made an awesome makeshift baby gym when I tied them to ribbons onto a coat hanger. I also think a foam letters and numbers set would be an awesome gift. I remember having a set when I was a child. We loved it! Here’s a similar one. Theo still
- Thermal cherry pit pillow – This doesn’t seem to be quite as common in the US as in Germany, so this site explains the benefits well. Warm it up in the microwave and it helps calm little tummy aches. Check etsy for personalized ones. I kind of really want to buy this beaver one for
myselfTheo – beavers used to be my favorite animal when I was a kid.
We received so many wonderful presents from everyone and we’re really grateful to have these things. So if you’re looking for ideas as to what to bring to your next baby shower, I hope this list helps!